Ladies, carefully choose whom to submit to. If he is not going anywhere and has no God-like compass guiding him, you will end up being the head and he the tail. The husband is meant to be the head and you’re meant to be the body. Ask him questions like ‘where are you going?’ He is meant to be the direction and you are meant to be the mobilization!
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Fellows, a man with vision – who is on a mission looks attractive to a woman. You have no business talking to a lady if you don’t have a vision. A good woman will choose a man on the premise of his mission. If you don’t have a road map for your vision, she won’t come near you. You have to be sensitive to know who a good woman is. Choose carefully, because some women are knives – not every woman is a wife.

-Pastor Paul Adefarasin.